Monday, May 10, 2010

Definition of Love

How on earth can someone love more than one person in real life ????? The "love" I am speaking about is romance.
From the time I knew about this so called "love", I was sure that I will love only "her". Even if she would not love me, I will still be the same. I will fight for my love. I will die for my love. I will still remain a chronic bachelor even when she gets married or her child gets married.

Today:-

How on earth can someone get involved with only just one girl?? How can some one be so "lazy"?? When you have better chance, when you understand that the girl you think you love is not the one you really loved, or when you think that the girl you are loving just loves you like hell and never understands you, or when you at last understand that the girl wont allow you to live a peaceful life, then leave. Leave her :)
May be she is feeling the same about you. She also wants to leave you. And may be she is waiting for you take the first step so that no one will blame her :)

You always have a choice !!!!!

There is no right or wrong decision. Its just whether you are happy with your decision or not.
I don't take decision based on just calculations. Because there is no perfect machine which can tell you what can happen in future.
I had situations where my decision was so crucial. And my choices looked so alike and with same complexity.And when there is situation to take decisions, you will be surrounded with suggestions from your relatives, friends, relatives' friends, friends' relatives and the list goes on.

They will be there only while taking the decision and not when you have to suffer the whatever impact the decision caused.

When you have choices and you can never assess the impact of your decision in future, why waste time thinking. Just take a decision and be happy with it.

Never say that I am in this situation just because of my father or friend or brother or whatever.Don't say "He asked me to take that course in college; or he is the one who suggested the girl; he asked me to do that" etc..

Your destiny is in your hands along with the so called "God" and with no one else.
"Be happy for what you are and what you are not.Because your current situation is better than a situation worse than this :) "